Personal Pronouns
Posted: Fri Dec 06, 2019 5:18 pm
A 41 year first today. I was handed a note a few minutes into a women's college soccer game informing me the opposing team's goalkeeper identifies not as "she" but "they."
It sounded rather awkward saying "they dive to their left and make the save," especially since "they" usually refers to a team as a whole. A part of me wanted to say something by way of explanation, but I didn't feel comfortable having a discussion about gender identification in the middle of a soccer game, or calling attention to a young person who probably has had to deal with a few things in their life, so I just changed the reference and continued on.
What do you think? Would you have explained?
It sounded rather awkward saying "they dive to their left and make the save," especially since "they" usually refers to a team as a whole. A part of me wanted to say something by way of explanation, but I didn't feel comfortable having a discussion about gender identification in the middle of a soccer game, or calling attention to a young person who probably has had to deal with a few things in their life, so I just changed the reference and continued on.
What do you think? Would you have explained?